Stressful parenting

#advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby My husband is really hands on and fussed over the baby so much he wish he is the mom... and every time I try to expose my baby to something new or teach her something he laugh at me and blame me for making her sick if she gets sick...I feel so frustrated and he blames me for making the house messy and let the baby mess up the house....I really feel very stressed and unhappy... no one takes me seriously and blames everything on me. Even when now she starts learning to hit and bite he just laughs at me.. making her laugh too even when I tell her to stop it..pls gimme some advice...