stillbirth

hi mummies, i went through a traumatic stillbirth in nov last year. my daughter was 39 weeks & almost ready to see the world.. but she didnt have a heartbeat by the time i got to the hospital with regular contractions. eventhough my entire pregnancy was healthy but sometimes i blame myself for not being at the hospital earlier. i just found out im pregnant with #2 but i cant help but to feel so afraid.. i still mourn my daughter every day. i want to be happy but im so scared of losing this baby too.. 😞

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I am in the exact same situation as you. I lost my girl at 34 weeks last Apr and now expecting #2. Everyday I blame myself even though the entire pregnancy was healthy. I want to feel happy but at the same time I can’t really bring myself to it and I am being extremely careful now.

I know it’s easy to stay strong as only you know how it feel. I went thru a 6 week miscarriage after trying for 7 years. I am now 7 week and I am as anxious as u. But I would say go with the flow. Think positively. Take it slow.

Home Birthclub: November 2023 mummies i went traumatic stillbirth in nov last year daughter was 39 weeks