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Husband cheating?
What will you do if you found out that your husband had another Facebook account with thousand of women as Friend? I’m feeling very pissed and seriously don’t know how should I deal with it. I always thought that I had found a good man and end up all men are the same!
Feel like a failure
Sometimes I feel like a failure mum. Everyone else can do but not me. For example, MIL come in the morning and afternoon baby such a sweetie, rarely fuss and sleep very well, eat very well. But once MIL pass back to me in the evening, baby keep fussing, can't make it sleep, sleep also only sleep for 10 mins and then wake up, drink milk also can't finish, keep crying non stop. I can't carry baby for long also, I feel like I even lose out in terms of strength with MIL. She can carry and rock baby for hours on end, but I can only do like 20-30mins and my arms are sore already. I dont know what am I even good for. Just ranting abit before going back to take care of baby.
Sex is a chore (explicit)
Hi mummies, I have a 5 month old infant, and I am not looking forward to sex with my husband. We have not had sex since my second trimester. Back story: I used to have high sex drive and would ask to have sex every 2-3 days. However, husband always complains he’s tired or it’s too late and promises to have sex over the weekend, but that don’t usually happen. We used to do it every month in the earlier stages of our marriage, then it became once every 3-4 months. I get tired of asking, to the point that I don’t enjoy sex with him anymore. Sometimes he have difficulty arousing me and he gets tired of trying when I complain of pain during intercourse. I do satisfy myself on my own without his knowledge. When we were trying for our first child, I would pretend that I’m ok just so he can quickly finish. Now we are thinking of trying for a second child, so husband is starting to initiate sex. Not sure if he really wants sex or it’s just to have a chance of having a child. I have rejected him as I dread having sex at this point. Wondering if any mummies are in the same boat as me. Would appreciate any advice! Would like to add that husband is otherwise a generally responsible husband and father.
Help insurance
I’ve been looking for insurance and I’m so overwhelmed. Can you share w me if you bought just basic prenatal or bundle? Which agency you went with and how much you have to pay? Why did you choose that?
In-laws
Does anyone have issues with parents-in-law? My LO (currently 5 months old) is taken care by my MIL when me and hubby is at work. My MIL used to be a babysitter so she’s quite good at babies. However, she got her own set of pantangs and way of educating the child, which is very different from me. I don’t believe in pantangs at all. She doesn’t believe in what We say when we explain to her. For example, there was once baby did not poo for a week, she got so ganchiong and kept calling over the weekend telling us to try this try that. We already explained to her nicely that this is normal for BF babies but her mindset is stuck with need to poo Everyday blablabla. This is just one example. Another example is, she kept saying baby should start on solids now. Me and my husband’s take is to follow baby’s cues, we don’t have a definite to start solids at 4 months or 6 months. We did try a little puree but feel that baby is not yet ready for it. But MIL keep saying that should start alr. So irritating? Sometimes, this really irritates me and I want to send my baby to infant care instead. Is like, why must I explain what I’m doing to her and why she keep giving suggestions that I don’t want to hear. I have my own style in doing things and parenting. But my hubby refuses as infant care is expensive and he thinks it’ll be better for baby to be under grandma’s care. I do agree with him but I think it’s only for my sanity. ? Does anyone has similar experience?
Coughing and HFMD
My 4 month+ old son has bad cough and lots of phlegm back his throat. Night time is worse. Plus its almost a month so we bought him to A&E cause this first time mom so dead worried. The doctor say his lung noisy and prescribe him a Salbuair Inhaler with mask and give him. She say its not for asthma but I google almost answers show asthma. I worried he have asthma. On top of that she give him nasal decongestion . I feel like he so young to given any medication and I dont him to depend on medication. Is there mummy out there whi has same problem or any suggestion? Im in my dead end. My daughter on top of that her hfmd rashes break out badly suddenly. And she also now start coughing but not has bad as her brother.
3years old tantrum
Hihi,any of you experience this? My son turning three in July and recently he started the screaming behaviours. Anything doesn't goes his ways he scream in high pitch. At times for attention he also scream for fun .. Isit a phase? How do you manage? Thanks
Gassy baby
My 9 week old girl (bottle feed ebm) gets cranky and wails murder when she wants to be burped/is gassy. This can happen while feeding or her waking from nap. Could happen a few times in a feed. We would have to stop feeding and either stand up while patting/burping her or quickly flip her to a sitting position to burp. Has anyone encountered this as well? Thank you very much.
Shampoo for post-partum hair loss
Hello mummies, have you used a shampoo that really really helped with your post-partum hair loss? Please recommend!I'm 3.5 months post-partum and I think I'm starting to see more hairfall. 🙁
Travelling
I'm thinking of planning a trip some time in October this year. Any recommendations on baby (less than 1 year old) friendly countries to travel to? And preferably not a long flight (5 hours or less). Thanks!
Hadiah
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