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Anyone have reviews on Skool4Kidz?

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Quite a good school

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Any other dads have a partner facing post natal depression/blues?

Many mummies go through the post natal blues and I m sure the daddies go through the challenges together with them. My wife had a tough pregnancy which she had trouble drinking or eating, she had to go to hospital for IV drip several times because she was so weak and body was rejecting everything. I cannot imagine going through all of it again with her, it’s a part of my memory which I just archive away and not want to think about. We had so many challenges besides just the tough pregnancy, we just moved to her hometown (a new place for me) and waiting for our home reno to be done while she was preggy. We were moving from place to place as our in laws house didn’t have space for us, staying from hotels to relatives house for months before eventually moved in a week before delivery. We are now blessed with a beautiful cute little girl but our relationship hasn’t been going well. There has been so much of mood swings, nit picking over the smallest of things and lots of breakdowns for both of us. There are times where I just break down and cry hysterically after she is mad at me for days and dont want to talk or resolve the issues (often which I m clueless about). Many a times I ask myself, I have done nothing wrong or bad, I put my family on top priority and I only go to work or spend time at home with my family, no vices and the only thing I spend on is on my wife or for family related use. So why is she treating me like I have made a grave mistake? I understand that it is tough on her so I never blamed her or got angry at her. On a regular day I dont usually get angry too which she finds me odd. I have the privilege of a flexible working schedule and usually go to office once a week so I m able to spend the most precious time watching my child grow up. I love my wife and child but there are times which I cannot take it anymore, but I snap out of it quickly and look at photos of happier moments so I stay sane. If there are any other daddies out there that are having a tough time and reading this, hang in there, you are not alone in this journey. I’ve been through this rollercoaster ride and I m currently on one of the lowest points as I write this. I hope that sharing my story would help myself or someone facing a similar situation.

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Airbot Supersonics Aura 19000Pa, Cordless Vacuum Cleaner Handheld Stick Portable Dust Mite Dust Bed Car Vacuum Cleaner

Cleaning just got a whole lot easier (and dare we say, fun?) with this sleek, cordless vacuum that goes where you go! https://shope.ee/2q7QEolnYT

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Europace Dual Wings Bladeless Fan EBF Z1

Upgrade your home's cooling game with a smart, stylish bladeless fan that adjusts wind speed to your liking! https://shope.ee/5AVL0xBp0S

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SMARTECK Electric Spin Scrubber Bathroom Cleaning Brush Long Extension Handle 7 Replacement Brush Heads Rechargeable

Make cleaning a breeze with an adjustable extension handle that reaches every nook and cranny, so you don't have to! https://shope.ee/7pW6CTPqfy

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AIRDROPTECH PD 20W 5000mah Mini Power Bank Fast Charging Powerbank Compatible with IP 15 /14 /13 12 Series Samsung

Sleek, stylish, and super-fast charging? This power bank is the family's new best friend for keeping everyone connected. https://shope.ee/1LIItmPPW4

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Kemei Rechargeable Electric Hair cut cutting cutter Machine Professional LCD Display Hair Clipper Cordless Electric Hair Trimmer

Haircuts made easy with Kemei's intuitive trimmer - just grab, glide, and go. https://s.lazada.sg/s.YOX7m?cc

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HINOMI H1Pro V1 V2 Ergonomic Office Chair Mesh With Leg Rest | Computer Chair | Study Gaming Chair |Lumbar Support Chair

The HINOMI H1 Pro's Flip5D™ armrests adapt to your family's every need, whether it's working, reading, gaming, or playing an instrument. https://shope.ee/AKCysp1kKB

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Nothing Phone (2a) | 12GB+256GB | 4nm Dimensity 7200 Pro | Dual 50MP rear + 32MP front | Iconic Glyph Interface

Capture every precious family moment in stunning detail with the Nothing Phone (2a)'s dual 50MP rear cameras and 32MP front camera. https://shope.ee/5KoIvWJU3L

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