Birthclub: November 2024

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Parenting Style

Hi Mommies/Mommies-To-Be, Just wondering what is your thought on "beating your kids" as part of parenting style? My husband's family is more towards using physical punishment like beating when their kids rebel. Personally, I prefer to approach it through communication and holistic view. Maybe partly because I was raised in a different style by my parents. When I saw my own brother and my sis-in-law teaching their daughter is also more with love and explanation, like treating her to be more mature in thinking not driven by fear of getting punished. I used to discuss a lot with my husband on how I wish to raise our child next time but it rarely ended up well 😂 This is because he still believes that a kid has to experience the cane pain or punishment then they'll be able to learn more. I am not sure is it because his family is dominated mostly by males, cos all he has are brothers and nephews. For now, I try not to think so much of how he'll raise our kids but I am honestly quite worried everytime I witness his brother hit his kids so hard or talking harshly. I am a believer that parents should set good examples to their kids if we want our kids to have good manners too.

Both ways will work. Always talk to them, question them and explain what's right/wrong. If all fails then, cane would sometimes help. Not all the time. Disciplining doesn't mean all the being very soft spoken/lenient. We can give and take but not all the time. Kids nowadays not like our time. Use cane = abused, Use cane = not loving, Use cane = they hate us, Use cane = more rebellious. I always use method of scold, raise voice, explaining why/what my kids do wrong and should be done correctly. Reminding them every wrong actions has consequences. And ask them should it be repeated? What if this is reoccurrence? In this way, everytime when the child wants to do something will think of the right/wrong and what are the consequences.

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Prenatal Insurance

Hi Mommies, Did anyone here get pre-natal insurance when you are pregnant till the baby is born? Is it necessary? What are your consideration factors? Any good insurance provider to introduce?

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Hungry but not able to eat whatever I want (picky eating)

Ive just stepped into my 11 week of pregnancy... Im hungry and I also need to feed my small bean inside me but Ive been super sensitive to scent which causes me to feel nauseated and lose my appetite... idk how to get nutrients in me whenever I feel hungry yet nauseated because I'd feel like throwing up. Any help I can get for this😢

same situation. I had to go hospital for drips as I'm dehydrated n lost 8kg. u can ask ob gynaae for diclectin n see if it helps. doc prescribe me stronger meds.

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Vomiting after eating

Hi mummies im at my 11 week now. Now, whenever i eat even not so full, a few minutes later i will tend to vomit everything out.. Especially during breakfast and dinner. Is it normal? Quite worrying and frustating though.. Anyone encounter?

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Been having like blocked nose in the morning and sometimes runny at night. Currently at 11 weeks 4 days. Is this normal?

yes common symptom apparently - saw it in my app.

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currently 14 weeks, is it safe to apply yu yee oil on my tummy?

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How does it feel if your partner mention they " regret marrying you" or " knowing you ". But when both of you are okay, and you confront they will just say its out of anger? Will you leave or still stay?

if you still want to stay in this marriage I would suggest counselling. saying things in anger is emotional abuse and unfair to you. I almost left but stayed because I love him and I know he loves me and agreed to go for therapy. After a few sessions he no longer says such things and is more conscious with his words. lashing out in anger is abuse. you don't have to stand for it.

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Can we drink sour stuff? E.g asam boi

Hi mummies. I have been very curious.. Can we drink something sour? Like assam boi, calamansi .. Or anything sour. Craving it so much. But not sure if can drink. Thank you

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Acne/whitehead cheeks which have never happened in my life before

Ever since I was pregany I realised there were a lot of white heads and acne forming at my cheeks which have never happened. It usually forms on my forehead but not much but now it's like a whole cluster of them on each side of my cheeks. Any face wash/creams that can be recommend to treat acne/whiteheads?

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Star confinement or Newlife Confinement nanny

Any of you mummies tried confinement via Star confinement or Newlife confinement? Would like to check here for possibly unbiased reviews hahah. I was unable to find much reviews on either.

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