Mums the word?

whenever i tell my husband i find it tough doig night feeds with my 10month old frequently getting up and at times my 2year old waking up as well he keep saying i am the mum so i have to do it. He have helped a few rounds but i just feel so pissed off everytime he goes with the "you are the mum u got to do it" like im drained...I really feel man dont understand a woman esp after childbirth.

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If I were you, I will be quite mad too. And I will directly tell my hubby that He is the father of the child too, we share same responsibilities. Do let him know that age below 2, has frequent of sleep regression. Especially the first year. Which need his help too. Discuss with him the planning night feeds scheduled if both of you are working. If you are SAHM - he can help do night feeds on weekends. Alternatively, hire PT / FT helpers, can help with house chores etc

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