When it comes to problems regarding your partner, would you take someone else's advice (advice from family, friends, marriage counsellor) or would rather stick to your instincts and do what you think is the right thing to do?!

Hi, Initially, because I would also be new to the whole situation, I will first talk to my best friend whoever it be (be my mother, father, sister, school time friend, etc.) and discuss with him/her. I would not shy away from seeing a counsellor if I find that I am not getting the right solution for the problem or still be in dilemma or confused about the whole thing. And if the problem regarding my partner is something that I feel that can be manageable at my end, then I would handle it on my own. I have no hang ups and I leave all the doors open and use one depending on the gravity of the situation.