Permission

U feel for yourself u will wanna them to at least inform ma..

Yes, but mine never inform me but only inform my husband.

Courtesy to just tell, even if it's close family member.

If they are the one taking care. I’m fine with it.

I would appreciate my parents do that, just in case

Yes should tell you. After all, you are the mother

Yes they should ask permission or atleast inform

Mine dont because its on mutual understanding.

I think this can be based on mutual concensus

Yes u have the right to know as the parent