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We're 17 weeks pregnant sa bunso namin and our big girl is about to turn 10. We make it sure na di nya mararamdaman na neglected sya kasi meron bagong baby na parating. We always assure her na our love will never be divided among them, we will love them 100% equally. Kaya ngayon palang she's as excited as we are to meet her baby bro/sis. Eto nga, ang laki ng kama nya pero nakikisiksiksya dito sa gitna namin para maglambing. Seeing them like this makes my heart flutter with joy. :) Kayo mga mamsh, how do you assure your kiddos regarding the upcoming addition??

best view :)
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A lot of parents get excited sa baby 2 and 3 and forgets to reassure the elder kids na they are still loved kahit may new baby. They think na “they will understand”, and sometimes it works that way. Pero most of time, it bewilders the elder kids and make then feel neglected kahit na hindi naman yon ang intention ng parents. Kaya napaka proactive ng ginagawa nio ngayon for your eldest child and hope more parents learn from this example. Congratulations!

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5y ago

Yun actually ang iniiwasan namin, ang maramdaman nya na nababawasan ang love namin saknya dahil may bago na kaming baby. They're both my babies, kahit ilang addition pa ang magkaroon, pantay pantay ang love namin sakanila. I think nararamdamn namn nya na mahal namin s'ya. Kaya imbis mainggit sa baby, sya pa ang nagsasabi na "mama tingin tayo sa shoppee ng stuff para kay baby". :)