Rant~ I really hate it when comes to my in laws side. They talk like everything is their business. Always ask my husband to do this and that. And our new bto they will say to my husband you should do this and don't do that.. They nv think that I am staying there too got the guts tell me la.. why tell my husband as if he living alone. All in laws like that ar? Irritating to the max. They say "Your house is big hor next time can rent out earn money" I m thinking my house is not a house is a Home don't like staying with stranger... I also not wanting them to live with me. Not my family members too. I don't want conflict...They will ask their sister daughter or my husband sister to come and stay over at my home. Why must come like they no house to stay. Really their face so thick. What can I do? My husband is abit hard to reject if they talk like that. And they don't come talk to me I can't reply, they talk to my husband. I just waiting for them to approach me.

I have a concern that I cannot talk to my husband about this (he will pull his face and talk with emotional voice), I just afraid that someday he will invite his family to live with us (MIL/BIL). Last time when we're renting a 5 room hdb, at that time my daughter was only few months old. He said he invited his family to help me (MIL,BIL,BIL's gf, auntie, uncle, son) they come bcos the son is on holiday, but he never mentioned to me that they will come for one whole month, I really pissed when I found out, I thought only for few days or a week, but 1 month is really a torture to me. They turn on aircon as they like in day time, watch tv with a loud sound, my kitchen is no longer mine, cos when other people using it, I just don't want to take a look of it. I don't want them to think my house as a holiday destination, come as they like for weeks.. I don't mind having guests/family stay over but only for few days, not for weeks/months, cos in that case we hv to do the laundry everyday (no more space to hang, use dryer also took like 4-5 hours/use), cooking, overnight dirty dishes at the basin, messing the house, etc it really effects me.