Wife constantly wants to divorce me

For the other dads out there, do you guys face your wife constantly asking to divorce, especially in the 3rd trimester? It feels hard knowing that you try your best to give it your all only for her to say things like “its not enough”, “why am I not your priority?”, “you are not the same person I knew”. I know that they are going through some hormonal changes but it still hurts when your wife says things like these. Its not like anything major happened (to me at least). How do you guys cope with this feeling? #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby #dad

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Maybe you need to find out what is your wife's Love Language. It can help you show love to her more effectively. e.g if Wife love language is Quality Time but Husband keeps buying her Gifts to show his love and concern. This would be a mis-match. Wife will think that instead of buying me Gifts, I'd rather he spend more time with me. Why is he not doing that? What's the point of buying me all these pointless stuff etc. You're doing your best and doing things to show you love and care but you're not getting the "results" from your efforts due to the mis-match. Try The 5 Love Languages book by Gary Chapman. May help you. You can choose to read the entire book or just do the quick online Quiz on his website and google for the summary. Love Language can be more than 1 but there will always be 1 or 2 Love Language that holds the most importance. Tackle those first. This is one method i thought of that you can try amongst so many other methods out there~ Of cos communication is still key with your wife~ I know it's hard on you as well. All the best! I hope everything works out!

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