Wife constantly wants to divorce me

For the other dads out there, do you guys face your wife constantly asking to divorce, especially in the 3rd trimester? It feels hard knowing that you try your best to give it your all only for her to say things like “its not enough”, “why am I not your priority?”, “you are not the same person I knew”. I know that they are going through some hormonal changes but it still hurts when your wife says things like these. Its not like anything major happened (to me at least). How do you guys cope with this feeling? #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby #dad

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I'm in my first tri and we're both new parents as well. I too told my husband the same things, even though I do not mean them at all. We're just absolutely stressed with the changes in our body. These changes are physical, mental and emotional and we try hard to control ourselves but it's really tough. These hormones inside cannot be seen that's why husbands cannot understand why hormones change us so much. But we see you and we appreciate you for all that you've done for us. We appreciate your grind daily but we cannot express it like we used to sometimes. I apologise to my husband everytime I make him sad and I tell him to take what I say when I'm emotional with a pinch of salt. I tell him whenever I can, how much I love him and appreciate him. I'm sure your wife feels the same. Please don't stop giving her the care and support that you've always been giving. Shower her with attention and assurance. You're doing enough and keep doing it! Jiayou 💪💪💪

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