Sis, move somewhere else since you know it is unhealthy to stay there. Nobody is forcing you to stay there anyway. It is your duty to protect yourself and your unborn baby. If you stay there then YOU are liable sa consequences sa health nyo mag-ina. Siguro kung maiinis ka, siguro sa situation na lang... Wag na sa family mo, you know why? Kasi you should have had your own place bago ka nagbuntis... You wouldn't be in that situation if you have planned things accordingly... Pwede ka mainis siguro ng todo if bahay mo yan at nakikitira ung kapatid mo.... Do you get what i am saying? When I was single and living with my parents and siblings, i had severe asthma attacks. To the point that i was being rushed to the er every week. My two siblings smoke 2 packs of cigarettes a day... I talked to my parents since they own the house and their rules must be followed... My parents could not stop them kasi bisyo nga un... I was initially mad at them but then I realized na i can't make them choose kung sino ang magstestay o aalis sa bahay since pare pareho kami nilang anak at mahal and nakikitira lang ako. I eventually moved out.... Kasi i can' t impose rules sa bahay na di naman akin. If i insisted what i wanted to my parents, magkakalamat lang relasyon ng parents ko at siblings ko kasi mag-aaway sila... Alam mo un? Lalo na pag old na parents natin, they mellow down at ayaw na nila ng discussions.
Hope this enlightens you somehow and this be taken positively... I see alot of posts here blaming other people for their issues... We have to thoroughly reflect. Bakit nga ba ako nasa situation na ito? Mag self-assessment muna... Tignan natin muna ang sarili natin kung may mali ba tayo bago ang iba. Mag root cause analysis or analysihin ang puno at dulo ng problema. Lawakan natin ang pang-unawa. Let us also be careful sa pag-bibigay din ng payo... Wag na gatungan ang negative emotions lalo na if wala sa lugar... Our words are powerful, it can make or break relationships.
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