How to handle a mother in law

My mother in law is always hoping my son won't be close to me... since young until now he is two. She really constantly saying hurting words like your mummy walk away, you smile. Then yesterday my son didn't wait for me and walk away with my father in law, she will make comment like see he left.... and give a smile like very happy he left without me.... I really don't know what's wrong with her. I don't even know how to trust her with my son... its to the point I don't want to see her..... I really feel so stress being around her.#advicepls #firstbaby #firstmom #pleasehelp

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i feel u mummy .. i am in a similar situation as u .. my mil loves to interfere in my way of parenting and she will always try to snatch bb away frm me if she hears bb crying .. there was one night bb was having night terrors, and she just barge in e room (bb is co-sleeping w me & hub) .. i just tell her off and say she make it look like we cannot handle our kid .. then she just keep quiet .. she has been interfering in our marital affairs since i came home from hosp day 1, take bb away from me to a point i cannot bfeed my bb and in e end, my supply dip 😪 .. from pestering me to switch fm brand (which we have tried a few and bb is not suitable w it), to hvg to buy all my kid neccessities .. my mil has been living w everyone nids to listen to her n will listen .. but sadly she got a daughter inlaw who doesnt likes to listen .. thr r multiple events tht it became an issue btwn me n husb ..

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same here. she barge in when i am breast feeding... and she keep pestering me to pump out so she can do the feeding.

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