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Hello, You know this happens when a sibling comes in the family. Here, I think what you should do is, express more love towards your elder daughter because else now understands everything and she will get insecure if you love the little baby more. I understand that little one needs your attention more, but all I am saying is that till now she was the one who was solely getting your love and attention, so now she has to share it, and it is little early for her to understand it. You should hug her, love her more than you do the little one. Because the little one is anyway not going to feel bad as he is too small and the feeling of insecurity would seep in the big one more than the little one. In few years this will on its own become fine when the little baby will also grow up a little and will become a play mate for her. If you will express your feelings in the right way to the elder one the she will grow up to be a caring and loving sister to her brother.
i can very much relate to your situation. jab mera second baby hua to meri first baby bohot excited thhi, but bohot jaldi sad ho gayi. aur angry bhi ho jaati thhi. usey lagta thha ki hum sirf baby ko pyaar kartey thhey aur usey nahi. i would say please spend more time with your elder one when the baby is sleeping, or try and ask some other family member to be with the baby while you take your elder one out - maybe once a week go out just with her? you can go for a lunch time, or a movie once or twice a week just with her. i know you will have to give time and attention to both, but at this age, your elder one has to feel secure about your love, so try and spend more time with her
hi Gudiya, please try ki aap apni beti ke saath zyaada time spend karo. i know ye difficult hai, because you have another bbay too. but try karo ki week mein some days aapkey hubby aapkey younger baby ke saath rahein, so that you can spend more time with the elder one. also, don't forget to hug and kiss your daughter like you did earlier, and don't treat her like a grownup. avoid saying things such as ab aap badey ho gaye ho. no. she is also small, so treat her like that.
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gudiya se kaho ki beta sirf mera nahi h..uska bhai h...badi bahan ma k saman hoti h...use iss baare m batao...
thank you so much. .
Gudiya Prasad