Good side of motherhood

Im a ftm expecting my child soon and the people around me and social medias are all filled with the negative and scary side of motherhood after birth. The depression, the loss of sleep, the change of body etc and that made me very scared and demoralised. I know its all true and ill be experiencing all that but wow is it all bad side is my life going down the drain after having a baby. Will i ever be myself again. Can mummies enlighten me the good bright side of being a mother, especially with a newborn. 😣 #firsttimemom

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yes 1st 2 mths is hard as I felt my life completely changed. we do not have confinement nanny or any family help so I stopped work (am a self-employed prior) to take care of bb full time. as we are 1st time parents, initially hubs and I will tear when bb vomit and worry at the slightest thing we see. but as time goes, u will adapt well and be able to know yr bb patterns, things will naturally work out fine :) my piece of advice, dont "hear" too much from others , every bb behaviour is different so dont compare yours, however if you dont know anything, ask . ask a few ppl to see which method u wanna deploy dont let anyone's words get to u, especially breastfeeding , can provide we provide, otherwise formula is also good. it doesnt make us bad mommies ya :)

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