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I'm a 22yo ftm with a lovely bbg who is 4mths old. i want to have baby no.2 by next year or at least next next year as i dont wna have big age gap between my kids. but my husband is not keen of having no2. so soon.. he worries about the money.. my husband and his brother has an age gap of 5years, and i see their closeness isnt there. they always scold each other etc. whereas myself n my brother only 1yr diff and we r very very close. i want the kind of closeness for my children too not for them to keep fighting everyday....

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2 years gap between siblings is ideal. As for financial wise, as long as there is dual income (both husband and wife are working), it shouldn’t pose much problem supporting two kids as long as spending is within means. :)