I think i cant stand my husband anymore. Anything he can just keep scolding or preaching non stop even you keep quiet didnt even retaliate or answer. You keep quiet and didnt say a word, did anything he feels you are wrong he will criticise you, scold you “an idiot” “asshole” “dumbass” “stupid”. Eg: switching the wrong lights (his immediate remark is “dumbass”) We came back from shopping, LO fell asleep on the way, when you reached home, what is the first thing you will do? Clean up LO and prepare them to slp? Or u will do household chores and unpack all the other shopping stuffs? LO is already 2yo, yet he cant even make milk. Mess up the whole area and i cant even tell him the right way to do it. He feels that i am insulting him by telling him what to do. He even use a dirty spoon intending to make cereal for LO, when i asked why didnt wash the spoon somemore the spoon is dirty, he gt pissed off and kept scolding me. This is extremely ridiculous to me! I really cannot stand his ego, or chauvinist or attitude. Mummies, teach me how do your deal with such species please!

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Have you tried talking to him? Or if you want just take a time off bring your kid with you, go to your family. If he ask you why, tell him the truth and tell him everything how you feel. He might realized your worth....

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Uh oh, sounds like bad attitude from your hubby. Some men just love bullying and showing authority...tell him frankly that you are not gonna take this sort of s*** anymore?

I wont stand for it and fight back. These type of men expect u to just suck up their scoldings and keep quiet but will be 'enlightened' if their 'victim' fight back.