I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

feelings are uncontrollable. you don't need to have issues with your husband to be attracted to someone else. it just happens sometimes and you just can't control how you feel. but before you take a step further, you should ask yourself if you are ready for the consequences ahead. are you prepared to lose your family? are you prepared for others to condemn you abt the infidelity? don't regret in future just for a moment of folly. things will never be the same again if you give in to the temptation. even if no one finds out, you have to live with it yourself that you are a cheating spouse. can you do it? another thing to think abt is the character of this guy, should he starts something with you knowing that you are married. be strong gal! it's not easy.