Husband not ready for a child

Hi, my husband and I went through IUI in September but we got a miscarriage in November when baby was 11 weeks. Our next IUI appointment is in February. But now my husband is saying that he actually realized he’s not ready to have a child now, and told me he only wants to start trying in December. As a mom that just had a miscarriage (I don’t have any children now), I just eagerly want another child ASAP. I want to respect his decision but it’s so hard on me. Maybe some Daddies on the app can share your views with me? :(

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probably your miscarriage may have affected/scared/hurt him. don't fret mommy, no one is ready for anything. the right time will come when you least expected. meantime, enjoy each others company, love have fun don't stress!