Husband and I have joint accounts since married. We always tend to quarrel over monetary issues. I closed my personal accounts while he kept his as he used that for his personal business dealings. Fine about it. But we just couldnt help but to always quarrel. Nt tt we are earning very minimal, combined income about close to 10k. We don spend on luxury goods or cars, however the spending seems huge and lead to big quarrel. Really hate it. Feels like im gonna go into depression mode. Preg with no2 in my 28 weeks. Feeling irritated and annoyed! ???

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maybe is best to keep your personal account. Money issues can lead to dissolution of marriage if not handed properly. If there is a big spending coming up, is best to have a family meeting to discuss it so that it won't lead to quarrels. Sometimes is good to be business-like when it comes to money issues. Oh yes if your spending "seems huge" and you don't know the root cause, you might have a problem. Having a good understanding of your family finances can help improve family harmony.

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