maybe is best to keep your personal account. Money issues can lead to dissolution of marriage if not handed properly.
If there is a big spending coming up, is best to have a family meeting to discuss it so that it won't lead to quarrels.
Sometimes is good to be business-like when it comes to money issues.
Oh yes if your spending "seems huge" and you don't know the root cause, you might have a problem. Having a good understanding of your family finances can help improve family harmony.
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