How can you help your spouse or partner cut the bad habits out of his life,like smoking, drinking alcohol and other more ?

While my wife has never been much of a smoker, drinker, etc. I do have family members that a) Have e suffered from substance abuse problems; and b) had a partner who suffered from an addiction. Generally speaking, the first step that needs to be made is towards reaching out to them and letting them know that their addiction is beginning to become not just a source of frustration and anger for you, but a detriment to the family. Your partner needs to know--if their problem is serious, that is--that their problem is hurting the family.