how do you handle the stress of taking care of everything? the baby, the house, the spouse, yourself.

I wk 10 to 12 hrs daily. Wen i m wking..i give my lo to my mother. After wk i still ned to rush to my mom place to pick her up. During my off days i spend time with my husband n dau. Wen my lo sleeps..dats wer i cook. If need to do cleaning of e house. I will tell my mom pls look after 2 hrs. House cleaning i only do it during week ends. Hubby wks. But if week days he free n i m working.. he will help me hang clothes n fold too.