Have you tried hanging out with your spouses in "couple shirt"?

The only time I wear similar-looking clothes with my man is during festivals/holidays. Like during Hari Raya, it's common for couples and/or families to wear traditional clothes in the same colours, which I do indulge in. For Christmas celebrations with his family, we'd go the cheesy route and wear matching sweaters or similar coloured clothes. But outside the bubble of holidays/festivals, we do not wear matching couple clothes haha.