You have a children. You know your husband is having affair. Would you give him a chance to come back to you or you divource him.
I would say divorce if you can't handle the paranoid that comes with forgiveness. A quick exit can actually pave way to better co-parenting as wounds take time to heal. There are a lot of families that survive Infidelity. (victim can be man or woman) With the above said, don't be an parental alternator or use your kids to get money. Leave the kids out of this, if he wants to be an equal parent, come out with a reasonable custody arrangement. I want to stress cheating or unreasonable behavior are both adult issues. Don't bring the kids into it like some parents here that mix and mess up everything because they can't get along with their spouse. Those are the worst parent ever because a marriage breakup for multiple reasons but the kids are innocent and they deserve both parents. If you have kids together, is truly till death do us part.Read more