Does your maid eat together when you go to the restaurant?

Yes, my family always brings our helper along regardless of the occasion. She also comes with us for our family holidays. Honestly, I do not think you should be calling your helper a maid. To even ask this question, it seems like you're degrading her to something less than a human being. Why not put yourself in her shoes for a minute and empathise with her? Coming to a foreign land, leaving her family behind just to make a little bit more of money, only to be ordered around and feel even lonelier. I think as an employer, you should help her integrate and make her feel welcomed.