Did you ever have sex outside marriage? I feel in women's case, it is such a big deal and a sure shot marriage breaker, but if a man does that there is always scope of things getting fine with time.

no, thankfully i still do not have the urge to have sex outside marriage. and if i did, i think it would be better to think through about what is wrong in my marriage and work on it, or move out. for me, it is not right for anyone to have sex outside marriage, be it the husband or the wife.