Can you have a great marriage without great sex? How about no sex?

A marriage without sex is not a marriage. Sad fact is that 15-20% of marriages are sexless. Sexless marriage is defined as a marriage with no sex in 6 months. If you have not had sex in a while, and you are the person who wants to get back in the saddle, approach your spouse with love and compassion. Say something like 'We haven't had sex in a while, and I miss you,'" Don't complain about it — that's not going to get you laid. Go for the sweetness. Choose the time of day that works for both of you; maybe set the scene with some candlelight, romantic music or whatever helps you both get into the mood.