I need suggestions

Before my husband and i got married, he was in an almost 10 year relationship with his ex. They lived together. But then things happened. They broke up cuz the girl cheated. Nagkabalikan din after. On and off na sila after that. It was a year after nung break up nila kami nagkakilala. He moved on and we love each other na talaga (haha i feel it and he proves it). Pero i know that deep inside, he is scarred. He has moved on, but my husband is scarred from deep pain. Isa na doon yung hindi nya pagkahilig sa pagkain. Yun yung way ng pagcope up nya before sa depression eh. Hindi sya kumakain talaga. And until now ganun pa rin sya. Pinagtatalunan namin minsan yung di nya pagkain talaga. Tinulungan ko syang maging totally healed pero sya na mostly sa sarili nya ang tumulong talaga para makamoved on. Pero itong ganitong setup sa pagkain nya, di na talaga nabago. I'm afraid he'll have ulcer or gerd or matinding acid reflux. So inaagapan ko na habang maaga pa. So ano pa ba dapat ko pang gawin para naman bumalik yung gana nya sa pagkain. Nilutuan ko na ng masasarap. Sinubuan ko na't lahat lahat. Pero pag di ko pinapaalala sa kanya ang kumain di talaga sya kakain kahit ilang araw pa siguro yan. Lalo na ngayon na hindi ko sya maasikaso ng husto kasi kakapanganak ko lang and nagaalaga ako kay baby. What do you suggest mommies?? TIA P.S. we've been in a relationship as bfgf for 9 months before i got pregnant. We got married this January lang.