As a mother of 2 (a 5years old and a 4months), is it bad na mainggit ako na si hubby nagagawa nya lahat ng gusto nya, ako hindi?? I mean, tali ako sa bahay, everyday alaga magisa, swerte pa nga na mother ko naglalaba ng mga damit ng bata. Kaso yung feelng ko, di ko alam kung naiinggit ba ako, or whatever,kasi si hubby maghapon sa trabaho, paguwi aasikasuhin mo sa lahat plus aalis ulit hanggang madaling araw kasama barkada nya. Uuwi kung kelan nya gusto. Ni hindi ko makatuwang sa mga bata. Gustuhin ko man magwork na, di ko naman maasa at ayoko iasa sa mother ko na siya yung magalaga sa kids ko. Nagwowork din sya for herself. Matagal ko na rin gustong bumukod kami at matagal na rin kaming nakikitira dito sa mother ko, pero di naman natutuloy pagbukod namin. Naiistress ako sa pagiisip which is bad dahil nagpapabreastfeed ako. I need advice po to uplift my feelings. ?

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Don't feel bad, sis. It's okay that you feel that way. You deserve a break din naman. Talk to your hubby about this. Tell him that you need some "me time" also and that taking care of the house and the family is just as hard as being employed. Why not ask your husband to watch over the kids every saturday afternoon so you could catch up with yout friends, go to the spa or something? He get to go out anytime he wants, you're only asking for a half day, once a week.. that would be a good deal for him. Even yayas have their day off. Plus he get to experience what it's like to be in your shoes, he might then understand what you're going through. :) ^

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